Like many others, I am tired of ugliness that some men show toward women and that some women show toward men. I would like to propose a rational solution to this problem.
There are many men who want an obedient wife, and there are many women who want to be either free of men or to be in more equal relationships. Fortunately the world is a big place, and it can accommodate them all. And the way to achieve this is as follows:
Let men who want obedient wives go with women from other places.
Most women outside the Western world would love to come to the West. If they get together with a Western man, the outcome will work for both parties. The woman would have a chance at a better life. And the man would also have a chance at a better life - with a woman who would be grateful to him and would be willing to treat him accordingly.
One major mistake that many men make is go for free-spirited women whom they find attractive, but expect from them the behavior of a traditional wife. This never works. Free spirits are one way; traditional wives are another. These men go for the women they find attractive and then seek to bludgeon them into being something that they are not. And this is a recipe for nothing but misery for both parties.
If you want a traditional wife, then go for a traditional woman. There are plenty of them, especially in places like Iran, India, Thailand, Ukraine and Brazil. If their race puts you off, then get over your racism. These women know how to treat a man right, and for a man who wants a submissive partner this is the way to go.
For the Western women, this would work as well. They would be free of unwanted attentions of conservative men and would be able to be either - single, Lesbian, or with a man who believes in gender equality. And yes, these exist as well and are frequently not people whom one expects them to be.
Global economy has achieved a vast benefit on a number of levels. In just three decades, a billion people rose out of abject poverty in China alone, while the Western consumers got cheaper appliances, Western business grew vastly, and now even the American workers are starting to benefit as the newly wealthy Chinese are buying American cars. Global relationships would achieve a similar outcome in matters of relationships. Western men will get the kinds of women that they want; women elsewhere will get to enjoy a better life; and Western women will be free to be what they want to be and not have to bow down to a patriarchial or authoritarian man. For this reason I regard this to be the perfect solution to gender issues - one that benefits everyone involved in the outcome.
Who would be made losers from this? The people who deserve to be losers - Taliban and suchlike who like to be horrible to women and demand everything of women while demanding nothing of themselves. They will lose their captive audience, and then they will have to improve their attitude and behavior if they want to be with a woman.
And the result, consequently, will be a better world for everyone.
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